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He died this week and I found out that he left everything to me. My Aunt nieces and nephews friend etc who was close to him don’t know what happen. Now everyone is mad that they were not name in the v moncton the will and that I was bad because he loves me and I didn’t want anything to do with him. I want to post what happen but my Mom says I should just let the negatively go. I had a very difficult relationship with my mother in law and tonight she passed.
- Even if the hole left in your life is a hole you believed you always wanted, that doesn’t change its emotional impact.
- We had been together 13yrs and had maybe 1, combined, good year out of those.
- None of this is my fault yet I feel so guilty.
- Right now I have a father in law passing of cancer.
- “Airyn, I feel bad for you. Like Ramona, you are expendable and replaceable.
- My dad also had a problem with alcohol and depression and I think he was just brainwashed by her.
Experiential avoidance is an attempt to block out, reduce or change unpleasant thoughts, emotions or bodily sensations. Now please note I say “perceive to be painful or threatening,” these perceptions are often subjective and what is perceived as threatening to one may seem totally irrational to another. After a death, many people feel isolated and misunderstood.
To Release Grief And Sorrow
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Lets Be Grief Friends
One more question about my dad dying the other day. How do I deal with family when all I feel is pain and anger towards my dad? I was thinking about possibly not attending, so I can save myself from more hurt or pain even from the family members. My aunt thinks I shouldn’t go until the summer so that she can be there to be my support and also so I can possibly mend some.
Reasons Why The Death Of Someone You Didnt Like Can Cause Complicated Grief Emotions:
I felt numb about him dying for a long time, then one day I just couldn’t get out of bed to go to work. I just couldn’t make myself do it. I finally got up days later and stayed in the bathroom for another day because I couldn’t work up the effort to go back to bed. Some friends who were worried about me finally got the apartment manager to check on me and they took me to a hospital. I would say I was involuntarily committed to a psychiatric facility, except that I didn’t care enough to it to be involuntary. When I started talking again, I was told I had a breakdown and the antidepressant meds they gave me appeared to be working.
It is usual for families to talk openly and with pride about the debt they incurred as a result of a funeral — the greater the debt, the greater the family’s standing. I am opposite to Sis and if it were “normal “ I would be visiting regularly, offering to help as much as poss, trying to make her laugh, buying gifts to cheer her up. But as it is, experience with her has taught me that it will just be thrown back at me . Useful bible quote “ don’t throw pearls to pigs”. But now with brain mets I felt so confused and guilty.
When all a person has been is a function, it is relatively easy to replace them, because they weren’t valued as real people. I agree with the comments about narcissism. Shocked and dismayed is right – when someone dies, there is a eulogy about THEM, what made them special, some of their nice traits, humourous stories about them. Art talked on and on about how lonely he was going to be. Nah, actually not, I expect that most of you here have no capacity for REAL human emotion, thought, or logic (that’s already been proven) …
